A sneak peek at what to do when someone dies
A death of a loved one is highly traumatizing and it becomes all the more unbearable when he leaves you unexpectedly. It is quite often said that other might just come and go, but it is the family members who have to go through the agony of their loss all through and all alone. But this is where a common mistake is made by friends and family.
A common question in the minds of many at this situation is what to do when someone dies. There might arise a condition when you get to know that the family member or a friend has passed away. A highly avoidable situation is this scenario is to avoid visiting the place or the friend. This is the situation where they might need you the most. Your absence might just augment the pain of the individual and his feel of loss. Your fear of showing up at that moment might just add to feel of isolation, something that should be highly unavoidable.
All you should do is to initiate by getting in touch with the friends. You should initiate by giving a call to the near and dear ones of the deceased. If you are the one who has suffered the loss of the near one, making the call to almost everyone in person is almost impractical. The best way to let people know about the loss is through writing an obituary notice and get it posted in the local newspaper. This is an ideal way to get the news transported since almost every person reads the newspaper in the morning.
Another important measure that you should consider while deciding on what is supposed to be done after a death is to settle on the funeral service and contact the providers on time. A funeral home that renders you the appropriate services and at prices pocket friendly should be opted for. The planning for the funeral service should be made well in advance like who will be the one who will be leading the funeral service. The services vary as per the community and county. There are few where it is obligatory on the part of the friends and family to send flowers or either makes donations in some charity. There are also some traditions where the family of the deceased decides to make bear the coffin on their own other than hiring the services of funeral director’s workforce.
There are changes being made in the funeral services with the changing times. There are families that ask for the deceased’s favorite music to be played during the ceremony. If you are in close relation with the deceased, it would be appropriate on your part to say few words about him. It is however not necessary that you have to talk all emotional about him. Talk about the funny instances you two have shared. That would definitely bring a smile on the faces of almost everyone present there. There are families that would prefer to opt for a new grave. You should first check your pockets for the same and then opt for the one that suits you.
All these measure would definitely help you out when you find yourself stuck in confusion as to what to do when a close one leaves you forever.
A common question in the minds of many at this situation is what to do when someone dies. There might arise a condition when you get to know that the family member or a friend has passed away. A highly avoidable situation is this scenario is to avoid visiting the place or the friend. This is the situation where they might need you the most. Your absence might just augment the pain of the individual and his feel of loss. Your fear of showing up at that moment might just add to feel of isolation, something that should be highly unavoidable.
All you should do is to initiate by getting in touch with the friends. You should initiate by giving a call to the near and dear ones of the deceased. If you are the one who has suffered the loss of the near one, making the call to almost everyone in person is almost impractical. The best way to let people know about the loss is through writing an obituary notice and get it posted in the local newspaper. This is an ideal way to get the news transported since almost every person reads the newspaper in the morning.
Another important measure that you should consider while deciding on what is supposed to be done after a death is to settle on the funeral service and contact the providers on time. A funeral home that renders you the appropriate services and at prices pocket friendly should be opted for. The planning for the funeral service should be made well in advance like who will be the one who will be leading the funeral service. The services vary as per the community and county. There are few where it is obligatory on the part of the friends and family to send flowers or either makes donations in some charity. There are also some traditions where the family of the deceased decides to make bear the coffin on their own other than hiring the services of funeral director’s workforce.
There are changes being made in the funeral services with the changing times. There are families that ask for the deceased’s favorite music to be played during the ceremony. If you are in close relation with the deceased, it would be appropriate on your part to say few words about him. It is however not necessary that you have to talk all emotional about him. Talk about the funny instances you two have shared. That would definitely bring a smile on the faces of almost everyone present there. There are families that would prefer to opt for a new grave. You should first check your pockets for the same and then opt for the one that suits you.
All these measure would definitely help you out when you find yourself stuck in confusion as to what to do when a close one leaves you forever.
Have a problem solving approach in life
There is no human being in this whole world that is absolutely free from any kind of problems. Problems are an inseparable part of a person’s life. At one time, a certain situation may seem great enough for you to leave all the things apart and think about it. At some other time the same situation will appear a very minor one to you which should rather be ignored.
Our response to the situation is more considerable than the situation itself. Our response to the situation is more considerable than the situation itself. When we ask our dear ones what to do when we have such a trouble, they are more concerned about the effect of the problem on us rather than its existence. The real problem is that people think that they ‘have’ a problem. If rather than worrying about it, people try to think about the ways to solve it, the evil will vanish faster.
As a problem is different from every other, there cannot be a single approach to solve all of them. However there are certain common ways to deal with them.
Our response to the situation is more considerable than the situation itself. Our response to the situation is more considerable than the situation itself. When we ask our dear ones what to do when we have such a trouble, they are more concerned about the effect of the problem on us rather than its existence. The real problem is that people think that they ‘have’ a problem. If rather than worrying about it, people try to think about the ways to solve it, the evil will vanish faster.
As a problem is different from every other, there cannot be a single approach to solve all of them. However there are certain common ways to deal with them.
- Let it exist: Some people just ignore a problem and never try to deal with it. This might sound strange but this is one of the best ways to deal with it. Some troubles are temporary and get solved by themselves as the time goes by. Even if you try to solve them, it will be mere wastage of your time as well as energy. But such times are important to be recognized as you cannot be ignorant to just another problem. Some problems need solutions otherwise they may exist for eternity and create trouble for you. Such as your neighbor throwing garbage in your lawn. Certainly it is not something which will surely take place every day and this seems to be a temporary condition, but if not solved, this will continue to be done repeatedly and cause negative vibes.
- Change your vision towards the issue: Sometimes the solution of a problem lies within the problem itself. All we need to do is change the way we look at it. Some of us get distracted and frustrated by the speed breakers and speed limit signs in the road. We don’t think that they are there for our own protection and safety. We try to find another root free from speed breakers. If we take these signs in a positive way and try to maintain our speed within safety limits, it will be beneficial for all driving on the same road. Thus changing your vision towards a problem can help solving it.
- Find the cause: Another effective way of solving a problem is to eliminate its very cause. It is a common saying to ‘nip the evil in the bud’. Sometimes it is necessary to find out the reason why the problem is occurring.
- Seek help: If you are not able to solve a problem by yourself, try asking an elder person for what to do when you face such a problem. Internet is also a very effective tool for problem solving. It is a common approach followed by many people to solve their issue. Just visit a website which suggests different ways to come out of a trouble and you will be provided with a number of solutions to select the most suitable one.